
đŻ STOP PROCRASTINATING: 5 Powerful Tips You Need Today!
GIRL! Before you read this, DONâT PANIC! đ ââď¸ Youâre not lazy, I promise. Procrastination isnât about being unmotivatedâitâs about fear, overwhelm, and, letâs be real, distractions that are way too fun (yep, Iâm calling out Instagram reels! đ).
I know exactly what it feels like to have big dreams but end up in some weird limbo where you want to work but somehow... youâre cleaning out that one junk drawer or reorganizing your closet âjust because.â Trust meâbeen there.
But hereâs the good news: You can absolutely break free from the scroll trap and get your mojo back! đ And to make it super easy, Iâve even recorded a full video walking you through every step of my process to stop procrastination in its tracks and get things DONE!
Hereâs what weâre covering today:
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Why Youâre Stuck
Spoiler: Itâs not because youâre lazyâitâs because your brain is avoiding discomfort. Letâs figure out whatâs holding you back! -
Break Big Goals into Small Wins
Big projects can feel overwhelming. But when you break them into bite-sized steps, theyâre so much easier to tackle. -
Stop Multitasking (Seriously!)
Multitasking isnât a superpowerâitâs chaos in disguise! Learn why focusing on one thing at a time makes you unstoppable. -
Organize Your Day
A messy plan = a messy mind. Iâm sharing how to create a daily schedule that keeps you focused without feeling stressed. -
Embrace Imperfection
Forget perfectâitâs a procrastination trap! Iâll show you why messy action is always better than no action.
Breathe, girl. Weâre about to tackle procrastination togetherâyouâve got this! Ready? Letâs go! đ
Why Youâre Stuck
Okay, real talkâyou're not stuck because you're lazy or unmotivated. So take a deep breath and let that guilt go! The real reason youâre procrastinating is because your brain is trying to protect you from discomfort.
Think about itâwhen you sit down to tackle something big, your brainâs like, âUmm, are we sure about this? This feels hard and uncomfortable.â So instead of diving in, you suddenly remember you need to reorganize your closet or check Instagram for âjust a second.â
Why? Because distractions feel easier and way more fun than facing the fear of failing (or even succeedingâyep, thatâs a thing!).
Here Are the Most Common Reasons Youâre Stuck:
1. Fear of Failure
Youâre scared of messing up, looking foolish, or not being âgood enough.â Itâs that voice in your head whispering, âWhat if this doesnât work?â So instead of risking failure, you avoid it altogether.
đĄ Mindset shift: Failure isnât the opposite of successâitâs part of the process! Every âfailâ teaches you something important.
2. Fear of Success
Surprise! Sometimes, we procrastinate because weâre scared of what happens if things actually go well. What if your business blows up and youâre suddenly juggling way more than you expected? What if you hit your goal, and it comes with a whole new set of challenges?
đĄ Mindset shift: You deserve successâand youâre capable of handling it! If things grow, youâll grow right along with them.
3. Perfectionism
Oh, perfectionismâthe sneakiest procrastination trap of all. You tell yourself, âIâll start when everythingâs perfect.â But perfect never comes, so you wait... and wait... and wait.
đĄ Mindset shift: Done is better than perfect. Messy action gets you WAY further than waiting for everything to be flawless.
4. Overwhelm
Big projects can feel so massive that you donât even know where to start. Your brain freezes, and suddenly, that task feels like a mountain instead of a molehill.
đĄ Mindset shift: You donât have to climb the whole mountain todayâjust take one step. Small wins build momentum and make the big stuff feel doable.
5. Distractions
We live in the age of constant notifications and endless reels. Itâs not just youâthese distractions are designed to grab your attention. But the more you give in, the further you drift from your goals.
đĄ Mindset shift: Turn off those notifications, set a timer, and create a space where your dreams get your full attention.
Break Big Goals into Small Wins
Alright, letâs talk about those big, scary goals that make you want to curl up on the couch with snacks and a Netflix binge. đ Been there! Big projects can feel like mountainsâimpossible to climb and overwhelming just to look at.
Hereâs the thing: big goals arenât the problem. The problem is trying to tackle them all at once without a game plan. Your brain doesnât like chaosâit likes small, manageable steps that feel achievable.
Why Breaking It Down Works
When you break a big goal into smaller tasks, youâre tricking your brain into thinking, Oh, I can handle this! Instead of feeling like you need to build an empire in one day, youâre just picking out the bricks one by one.
Real-Life Example
When I started my business, I didnât wake up and say, "Let me build a million-dollar empire today!" Nope! My first step? Choosing a name. Thatâs it. One small, simple task that got the ball rolling.
Another example: My friend wanted to start a YouTube channel but wouldnât because he didnât have the âperfect camera.â Sound familiar? I told him, âUse your phone!â Perfectionism was holding him back when all he needed to do was start.
How to Break Down Your Big Goals:
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Write it all down đ
Grab a piece of paper (or your favorite notes app) and write down your big goal. Then, break it into smaller steps. Be specific! Donât write âlaunch businessââwrite things like âchoose a business name,â âcreate a logo,â or âset up Instagram.â -
Start small đŻ
Donât try to do everything at once. Pick one task that feels easy to accomplish today. Success builds momentumâonce you check that first box, youâll feel unstoppable! -
Celebrate your wins đ
Yes, even the small ones! Finished designing your logo? Thatâs a win! Made your first post? Another win! Celebrating keeps your motivation high and makes the process fun instead of stressful.
Big dreams are made up of tiny actions, girl. So instead of staring at the mountain, start with that first step. Before you know it, youâll be halfway to the top! Letâs make those small wins count!
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Stop Multitasking (Seriously!)
Okay, letâs be realâhow many times have you tried to juggle five things at once, thinking, Iâm killing it!âonly to end up overwhelmed, stressed, and with nothing actually finished? đââď¸
Multitasking makes us feel productive, but itâs actually a sneaky trap. Instead of doing multiple things well, we end up half-doing everything and burning out. Spoiler alert: multitasking isnât a flexâitâs chaos in disguise!
Why Multitasking Doesnât Work
Our brains are wired to focus on one task at a time. When you switch between tasks (emails, making lunch, stopping the baby from eating crayons), your brain takes a moment to reset each time. This constant switching burns energy, slows you down, and leaves you feeling mentally drained.
Think about school: You didnât have math, history, and gym class all jammed into the same hour, right? Thatâs because our brains need focused blocks of time to really absorb and process information.
The Power of Single-Tasking
Instead of multitasking, try time-blocking. Itâs as simple as setting a timer and focusing on ONE thing during that block. No emails, no social media, no distractionsâjust pure focus.
The Pomodoro Technique (aka My Secret Weapon)
Hereâs how it works:
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Set a timer for 25 minutes. â˛ď¸
Pick one task and focus only on that taskâno peeking at your phone! -
When the timer goes off, take a 5-minute break. â
Stretch, grab a drink, or just breathe for a second. -
Repeat this process four times, then take a longer break (about 20-30 minutes).
It sounds so simple, but trust meâitâs a productivity game-changer.
For All My Moms Out There
If youâre working from home with kiddos running around, this method is a lifesaver! Nap time? Thatâs a work block. Baby playing quietly with blocks? Another work block. Itâs all about using the time you have and being intentional.
For example, Iâm literally writing this while my baby is napping! I know Iâve got a limited window, so Iâm focused and getting it DONE before that nap timer goes off!
Let multitasking go, girlâitâs only holding you back. When you focus on one thing at a time, youâll not only finish faster, but youâll feel more accomplished and WAY less stressed. Youâve got this! đÂ
Organize Your Day
Letâs talk about the power of planning! đ
A messy plan equals a messy mind. If you wake up without a clear idea of what you need to do, itâs soooo easy to spend half the day wondering where to startâthen suddenly itâs 3 PM and youâre still scrolling TikTok. (Yep, been there!)
The truth is: your day doesnât need to be perfectâit just needs to be planned.
Why Planning Your Day Works
When you create a daily schedule, youâre giving your brain a roadmap. Instead of feeling overwhelmed by everything you need to do, youâre breaking it down into manageable chunks of time, which makes it easier to focus and get things done.
Plus, when you have a plan, youâre less likely to get distracted by shiny things like Instagram notifications or that urge to reorganize your pantry.
How to Organize Your Day Like a Pro:
1. Prep the Night Before đ
Before you go to bed, take five minutes to review your to-do list for the next day. Whatâs coming up? Whatâs a priority? This simple habit means youâll wake up feeling clear and ready to go, not scrambling to figure out your day.
2. Use Time Blocks âąď¸
Break your day into blocks of time dedicated to specific tasks. For example:
- 9:00 AM â 10:00 AM: Respond to emails.
- 10:15 AM â 11:00 AM: Create content.
- 11:15 AM â 11:45 AM: Quick admin tasks.
This keeps you focused and prevents task-switching chaos.
3. Add Buffer Time đ
Life happensâespecially when youâre a mom! Build some wiggle room into your schedule so if things run over, you donât feel like your whole day is thrown off.
Bonus Tip: Turn Off Distractions
Notifications are productivityâs worst enemy. Turn off social media alerts and put your phone out of reach during work blocks. Trust meâyouâll get SO much more done when youâre not constantly checking messages.
My Secret Weapon: My Calendar App
I live by my calendar. Every task, appointment, and reminder goes in there, and I check it every night so I know exactly whatâs coming the next day. No guessing, no overwhelmâjust a clear plan that works for me.
When you organize your day, youâre not just managing your timeâyouâre creating mental space to be more productive and less stressed. And girl, thatâs the real win!
Embrace Imperfection
Okay, girlâitâs time for a heart-to-heart. Perfectionism is NOT your friend. I know it feels like if you can just get everything âperfect,â then youâll finally feel ready to take action. But hereâs the truth: perfectionism is procrastination in disguise.
Waiting for the âperfect moment,â the âperfect tools,â or the âperfect planâ is what keeps you stuck. And newsflashâperfection? It doesnât exist! The longer you wait for things to be flawless, the more youâre holding yourself back from the magic that comes from just starting.
Why Perfectionism is Holding You Back
Perfectionism makes your brain think, If I canât do it perfectly, I shouldnât do it at all. So instead of taking small, messy steps forward, you stay in your comfort zone, reorganizing your desk for the fifth time or scrolling Pinterest for âinspirationâ that you donât actually use.
Sound familiar? Yep, Iâve been there too. But hereâs what I learned: messy action beats no action every time.
Messy Action = Progress
Think of it like this: If you wait for the âperfectâ workout outfit, youâll never hit the gym. But if you throw on your old leggings and just show up? Youâre making progress, and thatâs what counts.
Itâs the same with your goals. The first draft of your business logo might be a little wonky. Your first post might not go viral. And thatâs okay! Those small, imperfect steps are what lead to real growth.
Why Imperfection is Powerful:
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Youâll Learn as You Go â¨
You donât need to have all the answers when you start. Taking action (even if itâs messy) teaches you what works and what doesnâtâsomething youâd never know if you waited for perfection. -
Youâll Build Confidence đŞ
Thereâs nothing more empowering than seeing progress, no matter how small. Every time you take action, youâre proving to yourself that you CAN do hard things. -
Done is Better Than Perfect đŻ
At the end of the day, an âokayâ completed task is WAY better than a âperfectâ idea that never leaves your head.
Real-Life Example
Remember my friend who wanted to start a YouTube channel but wouldnât because he didnât have the âperfectâ camera? I told him, âUse your phone and start messy.â And guess what? His first videos werenât fancy, but they were authenticâand they performed better than he expected!
The same goes for us moms: When the babyâs hungry, we donât wait for the perfect moment to make dinnerâwe just make it happen. So why should our dreams be any different?
Perfection is a trap. Let it go and take the first step. Your dream doesnât need to be flawlessâit just needs YOU to start. Youâve got this, girl! đ
Girl, you made it! đ Youâve officially taken the first step toward breaking free from procrastinationâand thatâs HUGE! đ
Hereâs the thing: you donât have to be perfect, you donât need all the answers, and you donât need to have it all together every single day. What matters is that you show up for yourself, even in small ways. Those tiny wins? They add up to something BIG.
Whether itâs organizing your day, breaking big goals into bite-sized steps, or finally ditching the multitasking mythâyou now have the tools to take action. And trust me, I know youâve got this.
Your Next Step
Now that you know why you procrastinate and how to overcome it, itâs time to put it into action. In the video I mentioned throughout this post, I dive even deeper with examples, strategies, and my favorite tips to keep you focused and motivated.
So, grab a coffee (or a snackâyou deserve it! đŞ) and watch the full breakdown right here on the blog.
⨠Remember, done is better than perfect. One small step today could be the thing that changes everything tomorrow.
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