STOP BEING A COMMENT STALKER: ENGAGE LIKE A PRO
Tell me right now—how many times have you had to block someone because they slid into your DMs right after you commented on their post, trying to push their service? 🙄 It’s awkward, right? I get it—they’re trying to make money, but girl, there’s a way to grow your business without creeping people out. I call it the “sell without selling” strategy.
You don’t need to chase people or spam them to build connections that lead to sales. Real engagement creates trust, builds relationships, and makes people want to buy from you—without you being "too much."
In this course, I’m showing you how to engage like a total pro:
1️⃣ Ask Questions in Your Stories: Simple polls and “this or that” questions can get your audience talking without needing to reply to every comment.
2️⃣ Create Posts Designed for Comments: Prompts like "Caption this!" or "Drop an emoji if you agree" make engagement feel natural.
3️⃣ Use DM Automations: Set up auto-replies for stories and posts so you can start convos without living in your DMs.
4️⃣ Host Giveaways or Challenges: Make engagement fun with small prizes and prompts like "Tag your friend!"
5️⃣ Be Playful in Your Content: Relatable memes and funny stories get shares—and shares mean more eyes on your biz without being pushy.
The goal isn’t to be everywhere all the time—it’s to show up in a way that makes your audience feel seen without overwhelming them. You can build connections that grow your biz and your confidence, all while keeping things real.
Ask Questions in Your Stories
Mama, people love sharing their opinions—it makes them feel seen and connected. And the easiest way to spark engagement? Ask questions and use interactive stickers in your stories.
Here’s the thing: You don’t have to spend hours replying to every comment to keep your audience engaged. Instead, you can create mini-conversations with simple, low-effort questions that make people want to tap and share. Think about fun, easy prompts like:
- Poll: “Coffee first or breakfast first? ☕🍳”
- This or That: “Work in PJs or full glam? 👚✨”
- Question Box: “What’s your biggest win this week? Let’s celebrate!” 🎉
These questions make it easy for your audience to connect with you—and guess what? People love talking about themselves and feeling included. It’s an engagement goldmine!
Why Stories Are Perfect for Engagement
1️⃣ Quick, no-pressure engagement: Unlike comments on posts, stories disappear in 24 hours, making interactions feel more casual and spontaneous.
2️⃣ Boosts visibility: When people engage with your stories, they’re more likely to see your future posts (hello, algorithm magic!).
3️⃣ Strengthens your brand personality: Stories let your audience see you—the mom behind the biz—which builds trust and makes your content more memorable.
Examples You Can Use Today:
- “It’s Monday—are we feeling motivated or meh today? Drop an emoji that fits your vibe! 🐢⚡”
- “Pick one for your dream workday: Unlimited coffee or snacks?”
- “What’s the last thing you crushed on your to-do list? Let’s hype you up!”
These prompts make your stories feel like a fun chat between friends, not a sales pitch.
Pro Tip: Bring Them Into the Conversation
Once you get responses, don’t just leave them hanging! Share poll results or answer questions in follow-up stories with fun reactions. Example: “Looks like 75% of you are team iced coffee! I knew I wasn’t alone! 🧊☕” This makes your audience feel seen and turns casual viewers into loyal fans.
By making stories interactive and engaging, you’re creating deeper connections without feeling like you’re “on” all the time.
Ready to level up your content posts? Let’s move on to creating posts designed to invite all the comments! 👇
Create Posts Designed for Comments
Be honest—how many times have you scrolled past a post because it felt like a boring, one-sided broadcast? But then you see a post that says, “Caption this!” or “Drop an emoji if you agree!”—and boom, you're typing faster than you can blink!
Now ask yourself: When was the last time you intentionally created a post that invited your audience to jump in and comment? Because that’s exactly how you turn casual followers into engaged supporters—by designing posts that practically scream, “Join the convo!”
Why This Works
Think of the accounts that you love engaging with. What do they all have in common? They’re asking for your thoughts, your opinions, your reactions. They’re not just posting to post—they’re making it about you.
When you create posts designed for interaction, you’re building a space where your audience feels welcome, and more importantly—they feel seen.
Engagement-Boosting Post Ideas:
1️⃣ “Caption This” Photos: Post a funny or interesting picture and ask your audience to caption it.
Example: Post a pic of your messy desk and say, “Help me out—what does this photo say? Best caption wins bragging rights!” 📝
2️⃣ Ask for Recommendations:
“What’s the best mompreneur productivity hack you’ve tried? Let’s swap tips!”
3️⃣ Emoji Challenges:
“Describe your work-from-home vibe using only emojis. I’ll go first: ☕💻🍼”
4️⃣ Fun Debates:
“Does pineapple belong on pizza? 🍍🍕 Yes or no? Let’s settle this once and for all!”
Have You Noticed?
You’ve probably seen other accounts doing this, right? The ones that make you feel like you have to chime in because it’s too fun to ignore? That’s the vibe you want for your brand. It’s not about perfection—it’s about creating moments where your audience feels like their input matters.
Pro Tip: Make It Easy to Engage
Keep your questions and prompts short, clear, and fun. Avoid overwhelming your audience with too many details—stick to things they can answer quickly. The easier it is to respond, the more likely they will!
You don’t need a viral post to get people talking—you just need the right prompt that makes them think, “Oooh, I need to say something!”
Now that you’ve got your audience commenting like crazy, let’s talk about how you can automate some of that engagement (because mama, we’re here to work smart, not hard). 👇
Use DM Automations
Let’s normalize not creeping in every comment section like a sales-hungry bot, okay? We’re here to connect, not overwhelm. But here’s the thing—you can keep the conversations flowing without being glued to your phone 24/7. The secret? DM automations.
Have you ever seen those accounts that send a friendly response after you vote on a poll or reply to a question? That’s automation working its magic! It feels personal, but it’s also freeing up time for the creator to focus on content (and, you know, life!).
Why DM Automations Are a Game-Changer
Here’s how automations can help you:
💬 Save time: Start conversations without typing the same thing over and over.
📈 Boost engagement: People who respond to DMs are more likely to see your future courses and content.
🔥 Feel personal, not pushy: You can make your messages feel warm and genuine while keeping things efficient.
Real Talk—Have You Seen This Before?
You know those creators who instantly send a “Thanks for participating!” message when you vote on their stories? And then maybe they invite you to check out their freebie or course? That’s not spammy—it’s strategic when done right.
Imagine someone responds to your “this or that” poll, and they get a message that says:
“Omg, same! I’m team iced coffee too! By the way, if you ever need tips for balancing biz and mom life, I’ve got a free course that could help you. No pressure, just thought I’d share! 💖”
See the difference? It’s friendly, helpful, and not over the top.
How to Set Up Your DM Automations:
1️⃣ Use Story Replies: Create auto-responses that send after someone interacts with your stories (polls, sliders, question boxes).
2️⃣ Post Triggers: Set automations that respond when someone comments with specific keywords (like “interested” or “course”).
3️⃣ Keep it Fun and Personal: Add emojis, voice notes, or playful phrases to keep your responses feeling real.
Pro Tip: Set Boundaries with Your Automations
You don’t need to send a DM every time someone likes your story—it’s about creating balance. Use automations for the moments that make sense, like when you’re offering a resource or following up on something they showed interest in.
Automating some of your engagement helps you stay consistent without the burnout. And now that we’ve streamlined your DMs, let’s dive into how to make engagement exciting with challenges and giveaways! 👇
Host Giveaways or Challenges
Let’s be honest—who doesn’t love a fun challenge or the chance to win something exciting? 🎁 But here’s the catch: You don’t need to spend a dime to create giveaways that get your audience hyped. Giveaways and challenges aren’t just about prizes—they’re about creating connection, excitement, and a sense of community.
Plus, when done right, they boost engagement without making you feel like you’re just handing out free stuff all the time.
Why Giveaways and Challenges Work
Think about the last time you saw a “tag your friend” post or a fun challenge—didn’t it make you stop scrolling and participate? These types of posts feel interactive, low-pressure, and fun. And when people participate, it increases your visibility, grows your audience, and makes your page a go-to spot for valuable (and entertaining!) content.
Out-of-the-Box Giveaway & Challenge Ideas (No Spending Required!)
1️⃣ Shoutout Giveaway:
Offer your winner a shoutout to your audience. Whether it’s a feature in your stories or a full post highlighting their business or page, it’s free for you and valuable for them!
Prompt Example: “Share your biggest win this week and tag me. I’ll shout out one amazing story tomorrow!”
2️⃣ Exclusive Content Freebie:
Share a special piece of exclusive content—like a free guide, a PDF with tips, or even early access to your latest content.
Prompt Example: “Comment ‘I’m in!’ to enter for exclusive early access to my new biz strategy checklist!”
3️⃣ "Pick My Brain" Q&A Session:
Offer a 10-minute one-on-one chat where you help with questions they have about business, content, or productivity. It’s free for you but can be so valuable to your audience.
Prompt Example: “Want a 1:1 Q&A with me? Comment your biggest biz struggle, and I’ll pick someone to chat with!”
4️⃣ User-Generated Content Challenge:
Create a challenge where your audience creates posts or stories using a specific hashtag or theme related to your niche. Feature the best ones!
Prompt Example: “Post a story showing your current workspace with the hashtag #MompreneurVibes. I’ll feature my fave setup and give a special shoutout!”
5️⃣ Personalized Recommendation:
Offer to review their business idea, social media page, or workflow and give personalized tips or feedback. This is huge for small biz owners who need guidance.
Prompt Example: “Comment your Instagram handle below, and I’ll give one person a free audit of their profile with personalized growth tips!”
Why This Works So Well
Giveaways and challenges create excitement and build a sense of community. And the best part? You’re giving value and driving engagement without spending a single penny. Plus, you’re showing your audience that you’re invested in their growth and success—not just trying to make a sale.
Pro Tip: Keep It Simple
Make sure your audience knows exactly what to do. Avoid complicated rules or steps that might make them hesitate. Keep it fun, clear, and easy to participate.
Next up, let’s talk about how humor and playfulness can take your engagement to the next level—because laughter? It gets shares and skyrockets your visibility without needing to spend a second in your comments. 👇
Be Playful in Your Content
Let’s talk about something that gets shares, saves, and tons of eyes on your page—playful content.
Think about it: People love content that makes them laugh, nod in agreement, or say, “This is so me!” And when they share your posts? Boom—more exposure for you without having to be glued to your comments section.
If you’ve been following me (@mista.club), you know I do this every day with my relatable, feel-good quotes for moms. 👑 I post things that make moms feel inspired, seen, and sometimes just laugh at the chaos of it all. And guess what? I don’t just post and hope for the best—I always ask my audience to share it with a friend or save it for later. And you know what happens? Those shares turn into more visibility, more engagement, and more connections.
Why Playful Content Works
1️⃣ It’s super shareable: When people relate to a funny or empowering post, they want to share it in their stories or send it to their friends.
2️⃣ It builds brand personality: Playful content shows that you’re more than just a business—you’re someone who gets their audience’s vibe.
3️⃣ It attracts new eyes: Shares = free promotion. Every time someone shares your post, their followers see it too!
Examples of Playful Content You Can Try:
1️⃣ Relatable Memes: Create or repost memes that fit your audience’s daily struggles and wins.
Example: “When your ‘5-minute task’ takes 2 hours and 3 breakdowns. 🫠”
2️⃣ Daily Life Quotes: Share quotes about your niche that are uplifting, funny, or super relatable.
Example: “Mompreneurs be like: ‘I’m the CEO, the marketing team, and the janitor—all before lunch.’”
3️⃣ Joke of the Day: Post a light-hearted joke or a funny poll.
Example: “Pick one: A day off or an uninterrupted trip to Target. 🎯 (Is this even a question?)”
4️⃣ Fill-in-the-Blank Games: Invite your audience to get playful.
Example: “Fill in the blank: My dream morning starts with ___.”
5️⃣ GIF Reactions in Stories: Post a funny GIF that captures a mompreneur mood and ask your audience to vote on their reactions.
Use a Strong Call-to-Action (CTA)
Always remind your audience to share or save your content! Just like I do with my daily quotes—whether I say, “Save this for the next time you need motivation!” or “Tag a mompreneur friend who gets it!”—a playful nudge encourages people to take action.
By adding humor and shareable posts to your content, you’re not just entertaining your audience—you’re turning them into your biggest promoters. And the best part? You’re boosting your engagement without being glued to your comments 24/7.
Mama, building connections and boosting engagement doesn’t mean you need to slide into everyone’s DMs or comment on every post like you’re desperate for attention. It’s all about being strategic and genuine.
By asking fun questions in your stories, creating posts designed for interaction, using DM automations, hosting simple but exciting challenges, and sharing playful, relatable content, you’ll create a space where your audience feels seen and valued.
Remember: You don’t have to do everything at once. Start with one strategy and watch how your audience responds. Soon, you’ll notice more engagement, deeper connections, and—best of all—you’ll be growing your brand without losing your mind.
Now, go get that engagement, queen! You’re ready to sell without selling! 🚀✨
